Thank the Lord 2015 is over. For realz, I have never been so happy to see New Year’s Eve. 2015 was very, very tough for Jonathan and me. A new baby and unemployment simultaneously will do that to you.
BUT! 2015 is over! Hooray! Here are 7 reasons I have decided that 2016, and since it’s about to be my birthday, my 28th year, will be better, in the arenas of marriage, work, family and my personal life.
- I will do my part to argue productively.
Hubs and I got into some bad patterns this past year that we’re working hard to break. We fought more than ever before, and not usually productively. We pushed and pulled and raged and drove each other crazy. But we got through it and now I think we’re on the other side.
2. I will choose joy.
Joy is my word of the year. In 2016 I’ll do my best to look for the good in all situations, and respond from a place of joy rather than worry, anger or bitterness.
3. I will advocate for myself and my ideas.
One thing I love about my new job is that I’m getting the opportunity to lead for the first time. When I was teaching I always felt that I knew less and was less experienced than everyone around me, so I stayed pretty quiet and didn’t speak out much. I was a leader in my classroom but not with other adults. In my new position, I get to be the expert, and I’ve gained a lot of confidence. In 2016 I will continue to believe in my own ideas.
Along the lines of advocating for myself, I also need to make more money in 2016. Money isn’t everything, but it is something.
4. When I am with Jonah, I will be 100% present.
I will be the master of my phone rather than the other way around.
5. My family will be in church every Sunday and community group most weeks.
When things get difficult, church activities can be one of the first things to go. Barring sickness or being out of town, we’ll be there every week.
6. I will make/keep my home a beautiful, functional, restful place.
I’ve realized that I feel amazingly better when I can come home and like what I see around me.
7. I will read more. I will write more.
The Grapes of Wrath, among other books. I’m on a Steinbeck kick!
I’m really looking forward to this year. What are your goals/resolutions for 2016?